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The best and worst dinner party hosts

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Ryan recalled a time he got impatient and asked guests to leave. Which brought up the debate – does that make you a bad host?

The behaviour of a bad host

There are certain things that can be universally agreed on, on what makes a good or bad host. According to surveys, asking your guests to leave is up there when it comes to bad hosting etiquette, but the worst of the worst behaviour includes:

  1. Serving burnt or undercooked food
  2. Spending too much time on their phone
  3. Serving food very late
  4. Not offering a drink on arrival
  5. Not serving enough food or drink

What about a good host?

In similar surveys, people also indicated what they want to see in a good host at dinner parties:

  1. Making sure there’s more than enough food
  2. Offering a drink straight away
  3. Making guests feel genuinely looked after
  4. Topping up people’s glasses when they get low
  5. Remembering what guests like and don’t like

Phil de Lange
Phil de Lange
Phil de Lange is the producer of the Ryan O'Connor Breakfast show and has been with Smile 90.4FM since it's inception in 2013. Through his work on the breakfast show he has won two national radio awards. He has been in broadcasting for 15 years and has honed his talent at 6 different radio stations. Outside of radio he is also a podcast producer and award winning stand-up comedian.

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